Emberlight Ceremony | Changing Tides

Let the fire hold what words cannot

Gather under the open sky with those who loved them most. An Emberlight Life Celebration invites up to 100 guests to share stories, music, silence and song around a glowing fire — a warm, communal space to honour a life deeply lived. Rooted in simplicity and presence, this ceremony gently weaves together remembrance and release. The poignant act of scattering ashes over the flames becomes a ritual of transformation — a moment of beauty, connection, and letting go.

Offered across the Central Coast, Newcastle and Sydney, this experience is designed for those who seek something honest, elemental and heartfelt. No plastic chairs, no sterile rooms — just the crackle of fire, the scent of eucalyptus, and the comfort of being together.

What's included

Every Emberlight gathering is thoughtfully crafted and includes:

Ceremony design and facilitation by a skilled death doula and celebrant.

Ash scattering over fire, a powerful ritual led with reverence and care.

Custom ritual elements (music, readings, objects of significance)

Support for speakers and guests to feel held and heard.

Set-up and coordination at your chosen outdoor location.

Gentle guidance before, during and after the ceremony.

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A Simple Path to Your Legacy

Elemental and intimate

The fire draws us close, a symbol of warmth, memory and release.

Deeply Personal

We shape every detail around your loved one’s story, values and spirit.

under stars held by land

Nature becomes part of the ceremony — grounding, soothing, and expansive.

Ongoing aftercare

Support that continues after the ceremony ends to help you through grief.

Stories That Live On

"We held the Emberlight ceremony for my father-in-law on a quiet beach he used to fish at. The fire crackled, the kids played in the sand, and one by one we started sharing stories — funny ones, tender ones, the kind that only come out when you feel safe and unhurried. Changing Tides held the space so gently. When it was time to scatter his ashes into the fire, it felt peaceful, like we were returning him to something vast and good. We stayed long after the ceremony ended, just sitting with each other as the stars came out. It was very memorable."- Chris, Kincumber NSW

Our gentle approach

We begin with a conversation to listen, to understand, and to learn about the person you’re remembering.

We help you explore options — from venue to ritual to legal needs — always grounded in your values.

We create the ceremony — shaping a meaningful narrative, selecting music, readings, symbols and roles.

We guide and hold the day — coordinating the flow, leading with presence, and holding space for emotion and memory.

We offer gentle aftercare — whether that’s grief support, practical closure, or simply a check-in once the quiet returns.

Answers to Guide You

Where can the funeral take place?

Anywhere that feels meaningful and is legally permitted. That might be a crematorium chapel, your backyard, a community hall, or even a forest clearing. We’ll help you explore options and design the flow of the day around what matters most to you and your loved one.

Do you offer full funeral services?

Yes. At Changing Tides, we offer complete funeral services — from initial planning to ceremony creation, body care, coordination, and aftercare. We hold both the practical and the ceremonial sides of the farewell with care, reverence, and professionalism.

How is this different from a standard funeral service?

Our funerals are deeply personalised, spacious, and centred on story and connection. We don’t follow a set format or script — instead, we work with you to shape a ceremony that reflects your values, the person’s essence, and the emotional needs of those present. It may include music, ritual, storytelling, silence, or whatever helps you honour them best.

What can I expect?

You can expect honesty, warmth, and grounded support. We’re here to make things easier — not harder — and to help you feel held every step of the way. From practical logistics to emotional care, we’ll take the time to explain, guide, and gently hold the details you may not be ready to think about. You can expect a ceremony that feels real, respectful, and unmistakably them. You can expect a goodbye that honours both love and loss.

What’s the First Step?
A free consultation to explore your vision, with no pressure.

EMBERLIGHT LIFE CELEBRATION

A BONFIRE GATHERING TO HONOUR, RELEASE AND REMEMBER

Let the fire hold what words cannot

What's included

A Simple Path to Your Legacy

Stories That Live On

Connect With Us

Email: care@changingtides.au Jenny: 0412 455 185 Chris: 0431 537 108

Our gentle approach

Answers to Guide You

Pricing of our Services

A Legacy Born from Love